Dear Agony Uncle,

Should write to my ex-boyfriends on Facebook? I’m happily married, but I am so curious to learn how they are doing.

Marie-Claire, Facebook

Dear Marie-Claire,

‘Ex’ means former and the previous should remain in the past. Confusing? Only contact your exes under three circumstances:

1. They owe you money/your possessions/child support.

2. You owe them money/their possessions/child support.

3. See point(s) 1 and/or 2.

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