Short and sweet, here are the pressing issues (well, some of them) for your Agony Uncle this week. Oh, and if you like these shorts, you can buy them from ASOS by clicking here.
How do I address an unwanted Facebook friend request from a colleague/manager?
Chuck, Twitter
There are a few ways you can approach this: a) Either have a blanket rule that doesn’t allow you to accept any friendship request from a colleague to prevent any animosity; b) Accept the friendship but limit your colleague/managers’ access immediately through your privacy settings; c) Create a secondary profile for professional relationships; d) Suggest they find you on LinkedIn; or e) Change jobs.
How long you can sit at a café and how many coffees per hour need to be consumed?
Gundeep, Twitter
Cafés are public domain but it’s courteous to ensure you’re paying your share of the chair rental. If the barista’s eyes are boring the back of your head, it’s time to buy another coffee. If your teeth are blackened from caffeine consumption, perhaps it’s time to leave.
When is it appropriate to tie a tie like this?
Yankees FTW, New York
A half-Windsor is a perfect for when you require a sturdy-yet-slender knot and the cut of the collar dictates so. Of course, how elegant it looks depends on the thickness of the tie, your tie-tying prowess and whether you’re wearing a Hawaiian shirt.
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toasty redhead
11 months ago
Right on!